so whats going on???
A very interesting discussion with a very amazing friend in the early hours of the morning led to a big question. What exactly is going on in a woman’s head when she is out there? How is her mind working when faced with a certain situation with someone?
What are we really thinking when walking down the road, or while entering a wedding, dancing conversing or any thing which puts us in a situation of knowing that we are being watched! Someone somewhere is looking, thinking making up a mind set, having an opinion etc?
Yes, indeed too many questions and hardly any answers. I was asked, “Why do women generally write men off as someone cheap if we so much so as smile at them from across the room, given that we don’t know them? How can you be so quick to judge a man and Not given him a chance. Do you not realize that it takes guts to even do that, to get that courage out to be able to just smile at someone or go up to them to strike a conversation. Why is it an immediate turn of back and an instant NO!!!?”
Very spontaneously I said “there are too many bastards lurking around!” How true or generalized this statement is not the issue, but I did understand where this whole “why why why” was coming from.
There are so many women who do all of the above, just to not let her image get spoilt as someone easy, yet they expect the man to come around again…and it becomes easy to consider because the man has made the second move after the first rejection. I would say if I were a man that, whoaa you shut me off completely the first time around and just so you can have your ego in place, I am supposed to come around again..but what the heck...i will come around again if I am interested enough!!!
What qualifies as interested? It’s a YEAH RIGHTT!! Statement but really a man could just be looking to have someone to talk to or just hang around with. Yes, no, maybe???
So it’s all a state of confusion…women trying to stay back for obvious reasons and a little hesitant to make the first move and men are finding guts and are still afraid of rejection...yes they are...very afraid indeed.
So the big question. “Why are we doing what we are doing?”
It’s a jumble of uncountable queries, and I am just trying to put it across as food for thought..
Try and make sense of that!!!!
What are we really thinking when walking down the road, or while entering a wedding, dancing conversing or any thing which puts us in a situation of knowing that we are being watched! Someone somewhere is looking, thinking making up a mind set, having an opinion etc?
Yes, indeed too many questions and hardly any answers. I was asked, “Why do women generally write men off as someone cheap if we so much so as smile at them from across the room, given that we don’t know them? How can you be so quick to judge a man and Not given him a chance. Do you not realize that it takes guts to even do that, to get that courage out to be able to just smile at someone or go up to them to strike a conversation. Why is it an immediate turn of back and an instant NO!!!?”
Very spontaneously I said “there are too many bastards lurking around!” How true or generalized this statement is not the issue, but I did understand where this whole “why why why” was coming from.
There are so many women who do all of the above, just to not let her image get spoilt as someone easy, yet they expect the man to come around again…and it becomes easy to consider because the man has made the second move after the first rejection. I would say if I were a man that, whoaa you shut me off completely the first time around and just so you can have your ego in place, I am supposed to come around again..but what the heck...i will come around again if I am interested enough!!!
What qualifies as interested? It’s a YEAH RIGHTT!! Statement but really a man could just be looking to have someone to talk to or just hang around with. Yes, no, maybe???
So it’s all a state of confusion…women trying to stay back for obvious reasons and a little hesitant to make the first move and men are finding guts and are still afraid of rejection...yes they are...very afraid indeed.
So the big question. “Why are we doing what we are doing?”
It’s a jumble of uncountable queries, and I am just trying to put it across as food for thought..
Try and make sense of that!!!!
posted by ~meyum & a half~ at 2:28 PM
7 Comments:
i say we marry everyone off at puberty!
ummmm ok!!!!:)
meyum is life not complicated enough!
personally "why why's" have done nothing for me but put me in further turmoil because sometimes the answers arent ideal!
so im slowly letting go of the "why whys", and u know wat mine are!
:D
I was walking besides the road once and the traffic was comming from the front, every driver, every one at the bike was staring me like...errgggg it was disgusting. Only when some other ppl crossed me i realized they wernt looking at me but someone right behind me... i turned my head around to see what was so weird behind me... it was a girl.. i saw the same disgust on her face when my gazes met hers.. one of the time i hated being a men. sigh.
u were missed, ALOT!
you (women folk) do what you do since you are afraid of rejection and want to convince yourself that guy isnt worth it before he can make a judgement about you (women folk).
Its got a bit to do with social emporwerment of women. This leads to the few with power having a subliminal fear of disapproval. So they excercise their power of choice, before the power of choice is exercised on them.
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